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Don Juan
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yo skip2mylou, i'm just wondering, what rating would you give yourself out of 10? just a little curious.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hammax2 -hammahamma said:For all you guys who aren't so "good-looking" (according to skips standards), who gives a ****? Go out and have the time of your life anyway. If you can't get the ladies then go out and have fun with your boys. If you don't have friends to chill with then join a gym or a basketball league. Have some fun with your life. Use this site for what it is. Personally, I find it good for when I'm done my work, get back from the gym, and am just chilling out on the comp w/ nothing else to do. It's entertaining, sometimes inspirational, and once in a while informative. But don't make it your life. Get out and do real things, accomplish real goals, and you'll feel much better about yourself.
Looks to me like every other bada5s suburbanite on myspace picking up 17 year olds.hammahamma said:He's got the goofy sideways hat, the hollister shirt, the "Im a tough guy" look.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
1. Never had good pvssy
or
2. Never had bad pvssy
Pvssy AINT pvssy
Nobody cares. Period.skip2mylou781 said:NO bODY CARES HOW I LOOK OR HOW I ACT, THIS THREAD ISNT ABOUT THAT
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WhEn YoU StArT a ThReAd AbOuT LoOkS ThEn YoU ShOuLd UsE YoUr OwN LoOks As A sTaRtInG PoInT.skip2mylou781 said:NO bODY CARES HOW I LOOK OR HOW I ACT, THIS THREAD ISNT ABOUT THAT
Actually, this whole thread is about you acting like a whiney little b!tch because people don't lick your nutsack just because you've said that you have to be pretty to get pretty girls. It's all about you.skip2mylou781 said:NO bODY CARES HOW I LOOK OR HOW I ACT, THIS THREAD ISNT ABOUT THAT
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.