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Don Juan
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yo skip2mylou, i'm just wondering, what rating would you give yourself out of 10? just a little curious.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hammax2 -hammahamma said:For all you guys who aren't so "good-looking" (according to skips standards), who gives a ****? Go out and have the time of your life anyway. If you can't get the ladies then go out and have fun with your boys. If you don't have friends to chill with then join a gym or a basketball league. Have some fun with your life. Use this site for what it is. Personally, I find it good for when I'm done my work, get back from the gym, and am just chilling out on the comp w/ nothing else to do. It's entertaining, sometimes inspirational, and once in a while informative. But don't make it your life. Get out and do real things, accomplish real goals, and you'll feel much better about yourself.
Looks to me like every other bada5s suburbanite on myspace picking up 17 year olds.hammahamma said:He's got the goofy sideways hat, the hollister shirt, the "Im a tough guy" look.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
1. Never had good pvssy
or
2. Never had bad pvssy
Pvssy AINT pvssy
Nobody cares. Period.skip2mylou781 said:NO bODY CARES HOW I LOOK OR HOW I ACT, THIS THREAD ISNT ABOUT THAT
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WhEn YoU StArT a ThReAd AbOuT LoOkS ThEn YoU ShOuLd UsE YoUr OwN LoOks As A sTaRtInG PoInT.skip2mylou781 said:NO bODY CARES HOW I LOOK OR HOW I ACT, THIS THREAD ISNT ABOUT THAT
Actually, this whole thread is about you acting like a whiney little b!tch because people don't lick your nutsack just because you've said that you have to be pretty to get pretty girls. It's all about you.skip2mylou781 said:NO bODY CARES HOW I LOOK OR HOW I ACT, THIS THREAD ISNT ABOUT THAT
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.