"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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looking younger(phsycally) than what you really are

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best thing i ever did with my appearance was growing my hair. i used to look really young (looked 16 when i was 18), partially cuz i was skinny. i grew my hair, as well as my muscles, and then spiked it up with wax to make it much more volumised. simple but very effective.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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studies show men are attracted to women with youthful features (for it represents fertility), whereas women generally gravitate towards men who are older, and generally appreciate rugged features over a "babyface." To a woman, this makes a man look distinguished (many women also like the salt n' pepper hair color), and represents experience, maturity, and security. All within reason, of course. Younger females (around 18 or so) are less likely to be into someone ten years older than they are than a woman who's 28. To many 18-year-olds, late 20's classifies as "old."
Well no **** men are attracted to younger women and women are attracted to older men. An 8th grader couldve told you that.

However that "statistic" about 18 or so females not being into someone 10 years older is debatable. I know a 19 yr old dating a 25 yr old. At my high school prom a few years ago a 17yr old girl came with a 26yr old guy she was dating, who was divorced and had a kid
 

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ooh, men are attracted to younger women? Then I've got it covered...a bit too well. I'm 18, but people usually guess I'm about 13 or so
 

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i'm 19.5
im babyfaced

and ppl always, ALWAYS jugde me for my appearence... simply, they expect that ill do baby stuff, be the nice guy whatever..

which i did for the last few years
now thinks changed, i'm not a nice guy anymore...
i have facial hair, but it's not complete so it looks childish

no answer to that question buddy, if u look that young as i do, try to deal with it...
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
omg wow you look half your age, show us a pic this i got to see, i dont think looking half your age would be a good thing untill your 60!
well, if i was asked if i wanted to look 25 at 50, i would put a sign on it:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im 17 almost 18 and i think i look young for my age because i dont have any facial hair other than peach fuzz sideburns and a moustache
 

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I'm 21 and am usually thought to be around the 18yr old bracket. I've heard as low as 16 once. Only a couple of times have people thought I'm older then I am. One dude thought I was about 22. But yeah for the most part people think I'm actually 3yrs younger then I actually am. It has it's pros and cons.
 

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Yeah I look younger too (or so I think, not really sure about that since i bulked up). Usually I get mistaken to be a couple years younger because I don't have any facial hair (i'm blond)..

Once when flying from NYC to Europe while being 16 (a month shy from 17), there was a cutie next to me who looked about 19-20 so I started talking and kicking it off with her right away. Turns out she was 25 :eek: I asked her how old she thought I was, and she said "21? Nooo. You must be 19-20. You look pretty young." That really soothed and stroked my ego. It was slightly unreal though, we were drinking wine that she ordered and ended up making out heavily in the seats under a blanket and rubbing each other, and then fulfilled my fantasy of getting a BJ in an airplane.

Never contacted her, but still carry her name, phone and email that she wrote down -- in my wallet -- just because that gave me alotta hope regarding my age self-consciousness. She was also half African so I also broke the cultural barrier I'd been having (I'm weirdly attracted to chocolate skinned women...)

Well, anyway, hope this story of 'young' looks encourages some of you to not let the age issue be a barrier (it's not, really, as long as you don't make it one -- which is really hard yet COMPLETELY DOABLE.)
 

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My father used to get carded at 40. I am 22 and look like I'm 15-16. My build makes me look older, but not by much.

It sucks now, but the future looks bright :)
 

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I'm 22 and recently went to Best Buy to buy a mature rated game (17 and up) for my brother's birthday and I got carded.

When I was in high school I was often told that I look about 3 years younger than what I was. I stilll can't grow full facial hair. I don't think it's a big deal.

If you look younger growing up you will probably always look younger than what you are.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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