"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looking to recruit a wingman/introduce another guy at school DJing

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Here's my situation:

I'm a bit of a social fluke. Somehow I always manage to **** up friendships, and i don't know why just yet. I don't think I have any REAL friends, or at least anyone I can call my bro. Know what I mean?

Anyway, I've been thinking of introducing a guy at my school to DJing, just so I have a good friend that I can wing with.

But I'm wondering, how should I screen possible candidates?

Or should I just look around for some cool guys that are alot of fun?

Because I'm starting to notice that I'm becoming socially dependent. I'll feel really bad if I don't socialize with people or friends every night. I think that it's a really bad thing.

I'm also working on this project: my town is boring. There are few things to do, but what I'm planning on doing is thinking of things to do in my town and writing them in a word document, and then eventually putting everything into a pdf. Stuff like hangout spots, good places to walk around, have fun, etc.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As a person that wishes to be back in high school (and freshman year on college LOL) make friends with the guys that are a lot of fun and seem social.

I only seem to make friends with dorks, geeks, and all around not pleasent to look at people
 
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