"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Looking to recruit a wingman/introduce another guy at school DJing

Vice

Vice

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2007
Messages
2,004
Reaction score
186
Here's my situation:

I'm a bit of a social fluke. Somehow I always manage to **** up friendships, and i don't know why just yet. I don't think I have any REAL friends, or at least anyone I can call my bro. Know what I mean?

Anyway, I've been thinking of introducing a guy at my school to DJing, just so I have a good friend that I can wing with.

But I'm wondering, how should I screen possible candidates?

Or should I just look around for some cool guys that are alot of fun?

Because I'm starting to notice that I'm becoming socially dependent. I'll feel really bad if I don't socialize with people or friends every night. I think that it's a really bad thing.

I'm also working on this project: my town is boring. There are few things to do, but what I'm planning on doing is thinking of things to do in my town and writing them in a word document, and then eventually putting everything into a pdf. Stuff like hangout spots, good places to walk around, have fun, etc.
 
Last edited:

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

N

nightcrawler

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2007
Messages
420
Reaction score
5
As a person that wishes to be back in high school (and freshman year on college LOL) make friends with the guys that are a lot of fun and seem social.

I only seem to make friends with dorks, geeks, and all around not pleasent to look at people
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top