"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jay-X

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why do some guys who are 5'9 (like me) at first sight look like they are 5'11 or something? is that attainable or is it just nature or something?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just the appearance. Depends on the clothes you wear, how you hold yourself, etc.

Just like how muscular you can appear - tight t-shirts will accenuate your musculature, baggy ones can make you look plain fat.

Don't worry, it's a good thing.
 

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Yeah, I think a lot of it has to do with your proportions. If you're correctly proportioned, you can appear bigger or smaller...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by ghostin
Your hair can make you look taller too
i have an hair cut similar to alex's (clockwork orange) or jim morrison's. do you think shorter hair would help?
 

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Start working out if you don't do so already. It will improve your posture and make you look an inch taller or so...
 
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