"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why do some guys who are 5'9 (like me) at first sight look like they are 5'11 or something? is that attainable or is it just nature or something?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just the appearance. Depends on the clothes you wear, how you hold yourself, etc.

Just like how muscular you can appear - tight t-shirts will accenuate your musculature, baggy ones can make you look plain fat.

Don't worry, it's a good thing.
 
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Yeah, I think a lot of it has to do with your proportions. If you're correctly proportioned, you can appear bigger or smaller...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by ghostin
Your hair can make you look taller too
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i have an hair cut similar to alex's (clockwork orange) or jim morrison's. do you think shorter hair would help?
 
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Start working out if you don't do so already. It will improve your posture and make you look an inch taller or so...
 
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