"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Looking for New York Wingman/Mentor

moorerodney

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I'm 18 years old. I actually started training the art of seduction (the right way) 3 months ago when I moved to New York, but I've been studying on this very site for a year now. I get better everyday from my failures. I'm a natural in field, it just comes out of me. It would be cool to meet a Don Juan to see how he acts and maybe pick up some pointers.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zonder

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moorerodney said:
I'm 18 years old. I actually started training the art of seduction (the right way) 3 months ago when I moved to New York, but I've been studying on this very site for a year now. I get better everyday from my failures. I'm a natural in field, it just comes out of me. It would be cool to meet a Don Juan to see how he acts and maybe pick up some pointers.

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That wingman/mentor thing is actually a pretty great idea. You get unlimited free lessons on how to act in society and a great social circle to go with it. And that's the benefits without even mentioning all the chicks your mentor will pick up for you.

What I mean is that when a DJ is in society he makes sure almost everyone in his vicinity is having a good time. Just by being there you will have a ton of fun and so will the chicks that are with the two of you. It's a win/win/win situation for you.
 

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hey i'm from jersey 27/m. you still sarge? i'm also a noob but i'm feeling better about my process in the field. let me know. i need a wing anyway. -kyle
 

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If you are serious about becoming a pro the right away there's only 1 training that works. Call 206-984-6950 and leave a message with your information
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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