"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Looking for New York Wingman/Mentor

moorerodney

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I'm 18 years old. I actually started training the art of seduction (the right way) 3 months ago when I moved to New York, but I've been studying on this very site for a year now. I get better everyday from my failures. I'm a natural in field, it just comes out of me. It would be cool to meet a Don Juan to see how he acts and maybe pick up some pointers.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zonder

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moorerodney said:
I'm 18 years old. I actually started training the art of seduction (the right way) 3 months ago when I moved to New York, but I've been studying on this very site for a year now. I get better everyday from my failures. I'm a natural in field, it just comes out of me. It would be cool to meet a Don Juan to see how he acts and maybe pick up some pointers.

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That wingman/mentor thing is actually a pretty great idea. You get unlimited free lessons on how to act in society and a great social circle to go with it. And that's the benefits without even mentioning all the chicks your mentor will pick up for you.

What I mean is that when a DJ is in society he makes sure almost everyone in his vicinity is having a good time. Just by being there you will have a ton of fun and so will the chicks that are with the two of you. It's a win/win/win situation for you.
 

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hey i'm from jersey 27/m. you still sarge? i'm also a noob but i'm feeling better about my process in the field. let me know. i need a wing anyway. -kyle
 

Pickupmilitia

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If you are serious about becoming a pro the right away there's only 1 training that works. Call 206-984-6950 and leave a message with your information
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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