GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Alright guys, I've been having one of them evenings where I've got nothing better to do, not working and there's nothing much on the telly, so I've been drawing up a list of my goals and ambitions for the next 4 months, not just with women but with all aspects of my life. Then drawing up a brief action plan of how i want to accomplish each one of them. Kind of like New Years Resolutions except obviously not at New Year.
Anyway, with regards to women, my overall goal, as it has been for the last month or 2, has been to find a quality available girl who i'd consider girlfriend material.
But until now, my attitude has been that while thats my overall goal, I'm also not gonna turn down opportunities to get laid, even when the girl's not GF material. Results have been that I've got laid a couple of times recently (had sex with this nympho in a deserted car park, and shagged a 30 year old milf after she got my number and sent me a naked picture of herself
) but not really found the sort of girl I'm after.
And I've been wondering if going after easy sex has detracted me from my overall goal.
I reckon there's 2 contrasting arguments:
On one hand, my focusing only on girls you consider GF material, you're saving yourself time and effort, and maintaining your focus on finding the right girl, rather than thinking about how you can get laid. You also show that you've got decent standards in relationships with women, which means that women are more likely to take you seriously, you're not just some ****y tw@t who wants somewhere to put his d!ck.
On the other hand, getting quite a few girls, even for pulling and casual sex etc, is a confidence and ego boost, which is gonna be beneficial.
So yeh, I wanna put the question to you guys on here, which attitude would you / do you take when actively seeking a girlfriend? And, very importantly, why?
Anyway, with regards to women, my overall goal, as it has been for the last month or 2, has been to find a quality available girl who i'd consider girlfriend material.
But until now, my attitude has been that while thats my overall goal, I'm also not gonna turn down opportunities to get laid, even when the girl's not GF material. Results have been that I've got laid a couple of times recently (had sex with this nympho in a deserted car park, and shagged a 30 year old milf after she got my number and sent me a naked picture of herself
) but not really found the sort of girl I'm after.And I've been wondering if going after easy sex has detracted me from my overall goal.
I reckon there's 2 contrasting arguments:
On one hand, my focusing only on girls you consider GF material, you're saving yourself time and effort, and maintaining your focus on finding the right girl, rather than thinking about how you can get laid. You also show that you've got decent standards in relationships with women, which means that women are more likely to take you seriously, you're not just some ****y tw@t who wants somewhere to put his d!ck.
On the other hand, getting quite a few girls, even for pulling and casual sex etc, is a confidence and ego boost, which is gonna be beneficial.
So yeh, I wanna put the question to you guys on here, which attitude would you / do you take when actively seeking a girlfriend? And, very importantly, why?