"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looking for fun with younger women...

wasted-nick

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I've dated some cougars lately and had a ltr with one that broke. I think I'm entering a bit of a midlife crisis stage and am looking for some good fun (no ltr) with women in the 24-30 range.

I have zero experience with this age-group. Any advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg

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Midlife crisis? It says that you're 34 years old. Was that a typo? Did your fingers slip from the 6 to the 3?

I'm not too far from 30, and I'd imagine that if you want to find young girls, you go where young people hang out. Sports bars, sporting events....bowling...I dunno.

Considering that 34 isn't old, I'm pretty sure you can get away with acting your age. Where all the post-college frat boys are doing jager shots, you'll be kicking back with a whiskey. I'd think the girls would go for someone a little more mature.
 

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Yeah, I'm screwin' around, but it is funny how 10 years or domestication can make you feel old... lol.

I suppose my question was pretty vague. What am I in for? Have the changed much in the last 10 years? What do you notice about them? The still got a vag right? Lol
 

Ease

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wasted-nick said:
The still got a vag right? Lol
You got to watch for this one, it can be a real dealbreaker.
 
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