"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looking for fun with younger women...

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I've dated some cougars lately and had a ltr with one that broke. I think I'm entering a bit of a midlife crisis stage and am looking for some good fun (no ltr) with women in the 24-30 range.

I have zero experience with this age-group. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Midlife crisis? It says that you're 34 years old. Was that a typo? Did your fingers slip from the 6 to the 3?

I'm not too far from 30, and I'd imagine that if you want to find young girls, you go where young people hang out. Sports bars, sporting events....bowling...I dunno.

Considering that 34 isn't old, I'm pretty sure you can get away with acting your age. Where all the post-college frat boys are doing jager shots, you'll be kicking back with a whiskey. I'd think the girls would go for someone a little more mature.
 
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Yeah, I'm screwin' around, but it is funny how 10 years or domestication can make you feel old... lol.

I suppose my question was pretty vague. What am I in for? Have the changed much in the last 10 years? What do you notice about them? The still got a vag right? Lol
 
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wasted-nick said:
The still got a vag right? Lol
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You got to watch for this one, it can be a real dealbreaker.
 
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