Magnatolia
Don Juan
Hi all,
I learn best by 'seeing' an interaction.
Like today there was a girl on the train. Guy next to her was chatting away to her and she was laughing and smiling the whole time - and I really wanted to know what he was saying and obviously how he was saying it that was getting that reaction.
Is there any books, videos, etc that actually do this? Like they have a non-staged interaction and show what worked and what didn't?
That's my biggest problem is that I need to have some idea of what to say and how to say it. I just ask how their nights going and take it from there. But then usually unless they give me some juicy tidbit in the conversation i don't know hwat to say next. I know everyone says to practice but I need to know what to practice.
All advice is appreciated.
I learn best by 'seeing' an interaction.
Like today there was a girl on the train. Guy next to her was chatting away to her and she was laughing and smiling the whole time - and I really wanted to know what he was saying and obviously how he was saying it that was getting that reaction.
Is there any books, videos, etc that actually do this? Like they have a non-staged interaction and show what worked and what didn't?
That's my biggest problem is that I need to have some idea of what to say and how to say it. I just ask how their nights going and take it from there. But then usually unless they give me some juicy tidbit in the conversation i don't know hwat to say next. I know everyone says to practice but I need to know what to practice.
All advice is appreciated.