"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ThisNThat

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Saw this woman on POF the other day, same exact obscure interests (sci-fi-geek stuff) and beliefs that it's uncanny, unfortunately, she mentions that she's looking for someone to be a stay-at-home wife, too...and that is financially able to support her and a child as well.

She's 38, separated, no kids with a pending divorce.

The thing that really raises the redflag is that she claims she's unable to work full-time due to "back problems" whatever that is...but from her photos she looks 100% capable. She said she works part-time as an admin asst. at a martial arts school she attends as a member. I had seen her prior profile from a few months ago, and she wasn't working at all.

So she trains in martial arts, but incapable of working?

Oh, and she's 38 years old.

I get a sneaking suspicion that she is too lazy to work and using her so-called back issues as a crutch or to win sympathy even.

She said it's always been her dream to become a stay at home housewife, but in 2017 at HER age? She could get away with it in her 20s, but not now...expecting too much, yes?

I don't know,but I"m thinking if a man mentioned something about his inability to work, but his photos looked like he could do very well otherwise. Women would be put off, yes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Conservative woman, wants to stay at home and cook, clean and **** you while she raises the child. You don't wanna go out and work? What do you think you are? A chap that will get free things? LOL
 

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Conservative woman, wants to stay at home and cook, clean and **** you while she raises the child. You don't wanna go out and work? What do you think you are? A chap that will get free things? LOL
LOL...what's sad is...this is something she could have already done with the soon-to-be ex...you know...when they were YOUNGER.

Sorry, she already had her shot.
 

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I think it's wonderful that she says all that in her profile. I wish they all were that honest. It allows you to swipe left or move on to the next profile. The ones I hate are the women who want exactly what she does but they sugar coat it or outright lie. I've noticed that most if not all women from 35-45 who have not had children and wanted children, still want children. Guess who they want to pay for the education and raising of those children.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah advanced baby hunger. If you do go there wrap it up good. This is where my morality cost me a lot of notches. With an obvious button like that advertised it would be so easy to pump and dump. But I prefer not to increase the sum of human misery.
 
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