So.. there is this woman, ive had the majority of the body lang. sign, also she does the whole playful touching thing at times.....so i guess we have gone out a few time - weve been to walmart together and few other stores but no OUT ON A DATE - BUUT she has come over a few times. First time she asked if she could come over and work on some homework with me and watch a movie (we did) on this first 'date' i cooked us dinner, she said it was great - and we watched a movie .. now while watching the movie she sort of leaned up against me - but i didnt really make a move, ik wanted her to feel comfortable @ my apartment (first time she was here and all) ok so that night went good.. then the NEXT night she wanted to come over again and watch a film w me, i said yes of course, but her roomate came with her - so we were watching the movie and we were leaning towds eachother and i slowly put my arm around her... as i reached her sholder she kind of moved forward which was odd, soo i back right off (thinking ok maybe too soon?)... sooo tonight we had class, she asked if i wanted to go out for pizza, her treat i was like hey sure! but then she asked to come over to my house, we cooked some microwave lasagna kind of ghetto but good!... so then while we were readin the directions she was infront of me and she kept bumping or moving back into me..so i was like hey im in like a shoe! lol.. so now she asked if she could come over tommorrow to work on home work, watch a movie and she said she wanted to cook dinner,... said she would bring some red wine! woot.. so what do you all think for my next encounter - should i try to make a move or no?...and what are your orveral thoughts...but should i or shouldnt i make a move...i dont know....i think so but not sure.. thanks!
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter silkkster
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
dude make the move! you've got a great chance here- the girl digs you man. she's gonna cook you dinner and bring over red wine? I say you should get some KINO going and progress from there.
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
not at all- have her cook a dish for you while you cook one for her...if she needs help cooking her dish if for example hers takes longer help her out or set up the table, pour the wine- light the candle and you'll be golden man
by the way the food preperation time is great for KINO one example- you could if things are going well go up behind her while shes at the counter slicing tomatoes or doing some other food prep action and put your hands on the counter outside of hers peek over her shoulder and say a C+F comment on what shes doing- be close enough for her to smell your cologne-
by the way the food preperation time is great for KINO one example- you could if things are going well go up behind her while shes at the counter slicing tomatoes or doing some other food prep action and put your hands on the counter outside of hers peek over her shoulder and say a C+F comment on what shes doing- be close enough for her to smell your cologne-
Don Corleone
Don Juan
First of all, read the DJ bible. You are acting like an AFC right now, and if you don't watch out you might just lose her. First of all, don't be afraid to make your move. Your a man, and thats what you do. Put your damn arm around her, and pull her close to you(when watching the movie). Let her make you dinner. Sit back and watch her, let her do all the work. When she pours the wine, use some ****y & Funny on her(Say "Are you trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me?" then give her a sly smile). She is obviously into you. No doubt about it.
If she doesn't want you to make the move(which I highly doubt), she'll let you know. Whats the worst that will happen? She will tell you she doesn't like it! Oh well! NEXT! Ask her if she can hook you up with a friend.
Keep your eyes and options open. Play it cool and do yourself a favor and read the DJ bible before you have your date.
Make the move, thats what men do. Only boys and females hesitate.
If she doesn't want you to make the move(which I highly doubt), she'll let you know. Whats the worst that will happen? She will tell you she doesn't like it! Oh well! NEXT! Ask her if she can hook you up with a friend.
Keep your eyes and options open. Play it cool and do yourself a favor and read the DJ bible before you have your date.
Make the move, thats what men do. Only boys and females hesitate.
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