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[oakraiderz2]

One thing that ive noticed when people try to build relationships with those theyve know for a while but have never really talked to is how they bring up prior occurances. For example i heard two girls i know talkin about all this sh*t that happened in the past. I dont really understand the point of this but i do see how it can work. If a girl did this to a guy, bringing up times in the past such as an ex gf or how you b*tched them out, do you think that would have anything to do with anything? I want to hear what you guys think, not just one sentence...put some thought into it please.

 

[oakraiderz2]

So youre all telling me that NONE of yall have anything to say what so ever? Not really suprising.

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

It's human nature man... people like to complain, to vent, to "feel understood"... it's their way to connect to other people...
to quote a great analyst from here, " when we say bad things about a person, we always have company, we always have acknowledgement... when we compliment them , we're always alone. It's actually bad, in the eyes of society, to accept a compliment, people refuse it immediately: " No, I just got lucky, I'm not that good..."

The secret for being really happy and not going crazy in this new world is this, to break away from those old paradigms, and do it strongly, so you bring people around you with you... it's positive anarchy...



BBB

 

[Omega]

How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie

Read it.

 

[LikRetsam]

They assume people care about their lives?

My past belongs to me and those who lived it with me and helped me with it.

Easiest way to make conversation really. Eventually you run out of stories and eventually you start going out and make stories.

 

[Centy]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
One thing that ive noticed when people try to build relationships with those theyve know for a while but have never really talked to is how they bring up prior occurances. For example i heard two girls i know talkin about all this sh*t that happened in the past. I dont really understand the point of this but i do see how it can work. If a girl did this to a guy, bringing up times in the past such as an ex gf or how you b*tched them out, do you think that would have anything to do with anything? I want to hear what you guys think, not just one sentence...put some thought into it please.

i dont see how bringing up the dirt form the past can help building a HS-relationship. Sure if it was a more 'serious' relationship, then I understand. But HS is mainly about having fun and boink around, not to sit down and have deep convos about the past.

 

[paraguayandj]

Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie

Read it.

Yeah that's the good shyt over there.

 

[CapiCrimini]

When you made your title "LOOK" I avoided this thread until none were left... next time try a title related to the thread... that way I won't have to post this again... I just don't like clicking on something that will most likely decive me or waste my time with useless crap... same reason people don't click on links when they see "capi" attached