look what happened to me today

[edgar]

So basicly iam total AFC , reading this for some time ago .

Iam very shy and trying to slowly boost my confidence with different methods (Sports , talking to random ppl but not girls etc ).

Today i went back from the Doctor , and went to get HIV tested , i will get the result in another day .
So i told myself what if i got aids ? i know its sound dumb but i said f*ck it i wouldnt give a sh*t about anything and live to the fullest .

So i put myself for few min in this state of mind , and i surprised myself to walk behing a real cuttie , HB 8 like , and negged her on her dress so naturaly that i couldnt believe it myself , in deed the rejected me by a smile and she said nothing .

Dam if i could have this state of mind all the time )

Take it easy guys with that post i dont mean to joke around with AIDS or nothing , just what happened to me !

 

[bootlegger]

sorry to hear you have AIDS man.


C'mon guys, lets show him support! ! ! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[DJUofS]

Originally posted by bootlegger
sorry to hear you have AIDS man.


C'mon guys, lets show him support! ! ! ! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He doesn't know if he has AIDS yet. However, the stress caused from waiting for the results is enough for anyone to endure. Good luck man.

 

[DJ_Dork]

having aids and hiv makes you more confident. highly recommended.

/sarcasm

 

[edgar]

No guys , wait i dont think i have it .

I just meant to told you that the stress of waiting put me in this *i give no **** bout anything* state of minds .

Anyway anyone should do the test sometime !

Iam straigh btw but you never know , **** happen ...

 

[crackhead]

no confidence with girls and youre busting neg hits?

the whole neg hit thing seems to be the wrong idea unless youre super smooth

i dont think i will ever even attempt that sh1t.. i think its far more important to be comfortable with yourself and confident vs. trying to flip some reverse psychology on a girl and make fun of her in hopes of her liking it somehow

seems that neg hits are best for hoe's who like playing games.. i guess i just am not around those type of women as much.. maybe i would try that if i were in this situation more

like on a sassy porn slut like britney sky

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by crackhead
No confidence with girls and youre busting neg hits?

the whole neg hit thing seems to be the wrong idea unless youre super smooth

I dont think i will ever even attempt that sh1t.. i think its far more important to be comfortable with yourself and confident vs. trying to flip some reverse psychology on a girl and make fun of her in hopes of her liking it somehow. Seems that neg hits are best for hoe's who like playing games.. i guess i just am not around those type of women as much..

Neg hits do work if you pull them off correctly. The trick is to be smooth enough so that she sees something positive out of making fun of her.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55144

 

[crackhead]

yea, to me that sh1t is just cheesy.. its just not me

 

[akindofblue]

Tim McGraw's "Live Like You Were Dying."

Great song. I've made it a habit to play that song once a week. Learning to go horseback riding at the moment. Fu Manchu may have to wait a bit, though.

 

[edgar]

HIV negatif , good results
I still need to keep that high confidence attitude !

 

[SealTeamSix]

Remember having high confidance is good .. but there are other things that can help you.

1. Always look PRESENTABLE when approachin girls whom interest you.

2. Match her energy level. If your energy level is too high/low, she will find you 'repulsive'

3. Do not be rude. A lot of guys here do neg hits. I do it too, but there is difference between neg hits (being funny) and being rude.

4. Do not be stupid. Again, PU is one thing, and being stupid is another.

 

[edgar]

Hey ST i appreciate your advice alot ,
I ll try to think about it next time .

Last time i was coming back from sport , i was wearing crappy jogging , sweating etc ... talk about presentable lol !

 

[joecollapoppa]

Good luck man, I was in your same boat. A girl I had a fling with was HIV+ I didn't exactly have your attitude though. I was Scared As Hell!!! i was in no position to tease anyone. Luckily I tested negative though.

 

[DJDamage]

This might be better off as another thread but how do you ask a girl if she is clean before you have sex with her? without insulting her or repulsing her. I mean you can still wear a condom but you are not protected if you want to perform oral on her and she on you.

 

[edgar]

i think you should talk about it with the girl when you 2 will have sex , get protection for the first time .

Just go get tested together (its free around where i live) then you can have safe sexe un protected if you both are HIV negative.

I dont like rubber personally, so when i can , i make sure the girl is clean and go without condom .