"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well,i dont think im a bad lookin guy, girls seem attracted to me, theyre open when i talk to them and im becoming a pretty good conversationalist, kino isnt a problem, i make eye contact and im just in general a good guy and i know i could get more ass then i do. im getting caught up on the critical part, actualy hooking up with them. like if i was in a room alone with a chick i knew was diggin me, i wouldnt know what to do. like how do you make a smooth transition from just sitting to making out? i know i dont display my sexual side enough, how do you do this? hmm, does anyone know what im talking about?

at a party,this girl ive known for a while was being very touchy with me and i know she wants to hook up, all the obvious signs were there. in fact,people think i already hooked up with her. however, i just cant think of a way to be smooth.

idk,if you need more information let me know cause i really want to get this problem fixed. PLEASE leave ANY advice you can.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Start our with your basic kino, and then just elevate as long as you keep getting positive responses, until you get to the point of kissing.

For example:

Sitting on couch -> Move closer to her -> Hand on her leg -> Arm over her shoulder -> Play with her hair -> "Mental kino" (aka prolonged eye contact) -> Making out


It's not something you're going to feel comfortable with the first time you do it, but the more often you go through the routine, the more you'll get a feel for how things progress. It's all about noticing how the girl is responding to you and knowing how and when to move forward.
 
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i had the same affliction. What interpol said is excellent.

If you can feel a palpable tension in the air, just freakin grab the girl and kiss her. lol. i love doing that, with the adrenaline and what not. they've always responded positively. if not, what's the worst that could happen. she knows you have balls now. unless ur drunk.

Do Interpol's thing first though. lol.

-JP
 
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thanks for the advice!
any more is advice is welcome
 
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