"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well,i dont think im a bad lookin guy, girls seem attracted to me, theyre open when i talk to them and im becoming a pretty good conversationalist, kino isnt a problem, i make eye contact and im just in general a good guy and i know i could get more ass then i do. im getting caught up on the critical part, actualy hooking up with them. like if i was in a room alone with a chick i knew was diggin me, i wouldnt know what to do. like how do you make a smooth transition from just sitting to making out? i know i dont display my sexual side enough, how do you do this? hmm, does anyone know what im talking about?

at a party,this girl ive known for a while was being very touchy with me and i know she wants to hook up, all the obvious signs were there. in fact,people think i already hooked up with her. however, i just cant think of a way to be smooth.

idk,if you need more information let me know cause i really want to get this problem fixed. PLEASE leave ANY advice you can.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Start our with your basic kino, and then just elevate as long as you keep getting positive responses, until you get to the point of kissing.

For example:

Sitting on couch -> Move closer to her -> Hand on her leg -> Arm over her shoulder -> Play with her hair -> "Mental kino" (aka prolonged eye contact) -> Making out


It's not something you're going to feel comfortable with the first time you do it, but the more often you go through the routine, the more you'll get a feel for how things progress. It's all about noticing how the girl is responding to you and knowing how and when to move forward.
 
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i had the same affliction. What interpol said is excellent.

If you can feel a palpable tension in the air, just freakin grab the girl and kiss her. lol. i love doing that, with the adrenaline and what not. they've always responded positively. if not, what's the worst that could happen. she knows you have balls now. unless ur drunk.

Do Interpol's thing first though. lol.

-JP
 
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thanks for the advice!
any more is advice is welcome
 
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