"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JoeMarron said:
It seems like a good deal at first but it's detrimental in the long run, especially for dudes who don't even know how to play the game in the first place. If a man can't keep his wife in line then he's screwed. A chick who's above his league will be much harder to keep in check.
Fair enough, but even the most beta shmucks from my youth who got married managed to marry chicks who were at least somewhat attractive. Now, those chicks may be cheating or treating the guys like sh*t... I don't know. But to actually go and marry some huge beast.. that would take a mentality that I simply can't understand.

I imagine that most guys here wouldn't even be able to get an erection around those women. Let alone date them, let alone have a relationship with them, let alone marry the things. It's incomprehensible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this is what most people look like if they dont work out
 

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hats off to pof for representing what the majority of their users look like. are there any recent new success stories? these are a couple of years old.
 

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The guys and girls look like they're about on the same level looks wise. I think a guy can marry up - but most guys don't have that knowledge. Most married couples I know are about on the same level.

I mean christ... The guy in the second pic is wearing some kind of knight armor.... And i can't see anyone else dressed up (in costume)... so I'm guessing that might be his wedding outfit.... That probably is the best he can get.
 
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