"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JoeMarron said:
It seems like a good deal at first but it's detrimental in the long run, especially for dudes who don't even know how to play the game in the first place. If a man can't keep his wife in line then he's screwed. A chick who's above his league will be much harder to keep in check.
Fair enough, but even the most beta shmucks from my youth who got married managed to marry chicks who were at least somewhat attractive. Now, those chicks may be cheating or treating the guys like sh*t... I don't know. But to actually go and marry some huge beast.. that would take a mentality that I simply can't understand.

I imagine that most guys here wouldn't even be able to get an erection around those women. Let alone date them, let alone have a relationship with them, let alone marry the things. It's incomprehensible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this is what most people look like if they dont work out
 

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hats off to pof for representing what the majority of their users look like. are there any recent new success stories? these are a couple of years old.
 

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The guys and girls look like they're about on the same level looks wise. I think a guy can marry up - but most guys don't have that knowledge. Most married couples I know are about on the same level.

I mean christ... The guy in the second pic is wearing some kind of knight armor.... And i can't see anyone else dressed up (in costume)... so I'm guessing that might be his wedding outfit.... That probably is the best he can get.
 
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