"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JoeMarron said:
It seems like a good deal at first but it's detrimental in the long run, especially for dudes who don't even know how to play the game in the first place. If a man can't keep his wife in line then he's screwed. A chick who's above his league will be much harder to keep in check.
Fair enough, but even the most beta shmucks from my youth who got married managed to marry chicks who were at least somewhat attractive. Now, those chicks may be cheating or treating the guys like sh*t... I don't know. But to actually go and marry some huge beast.. that would take a mentality that I simply can't understand.

I imagine that most guys here wouldn't even be able to get an erection around those women. Let alone date them, let alone have a relationship with them, let alone marry the things. It's incomprehensible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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foreverAFC

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this is what most people look like if they dont work out
 

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hats off to pof for representing what the majority of their users look like. are there any recent new success stories? these are a couple of years old.
 

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The guys and girls look like they're about on the same level looks wise. I think a guy can marry up - but most guys don't have that knowledge. Most married couples I know are about on the same level.

I mean christ... The guy in the second pic is wearing some kind of knight armor.... And i can't see anyone else dressed up (in costume)... so I'm guessing that might be his wedding outfit.... That probably is the best he can get.
 
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