"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kerensky

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...And kick them from under my arms.

This is it fellas. I spent waaaay too much time here. I might drop by in a bit to let you all know about my progress to maybe provide some motivation. Otherwise, good luck with your lives.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good Bye, Kerensky. Good luck. I tried to break off from this site, but I am a pretty opinionated person, and still feel I have stuff to contribute.
 

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One last post:

I just wanted to leave you all with this.

Sometimes, when you want two things really badly, you need to make a choice. You need to decide which one is worth it, and which one is not. You need to tear yourself away from your second most wanted desire, and concentrate your energies on your true goals.

This is an uphill fight. There will be enemies along the way, trying to knock you off from the top, trying to pull you down from under. But you must fight on. You have your body, your mind, and your will. That's all you need really, but just remember, sometimes sacrifices must be made. Leaving the site for a while is a small sacrifice I'm making. Choosing to leave pursuing women for a bit is another sacrifice.

You can't win them all, but the ones you do win, win them fast, hard, and big.

Cheers.
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
One last post:

I just wanted to leave you all with this.

Sometimes, when you want two things really badly, you need to make a choice. You need to decide which one is worth it, and which one is not. You need to tear yourself away from your second most wanted desire, and concentrate your energies on your true goals.

This is an uphill fight. There will be enemies along the way, trying to knock you off from the top, trying to pull you down from under. But you must fight on. You have your body, your mind, and your will. That's all you need really, but just remember, sometimes sacrifices must be made. Leaving the site for a while is a small sacrifice I'm making. Choosing to leave pursuing women for a bit is another sacrifice.

You can't win them all, but the ones you do win, win them fast, hard, and big.

Cheers.
Now i have all the answers...*tear*
 

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Nice post, good luck. I noticed your study log, I really hope you don't kill yourself with all of that studying. Social skills and charisma are equally important if not more so, especially for leaders. And 12 posts per day IS kind of a lot.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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