"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kerensky

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...And kick them from under my arms.

This is it fellas. I spent waaaay too much time here. I might drop by in a bit to let you all know about my progress to maybe provide some motivation. Otherwise, good luck with your lives.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good Bye, Kerensky. Good luck. I tried to break off from this site, but I am a pretty opinionated person, and still feel I have stuff to contribute.
 

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One last post:

I just wanted to leave you all with this.

Sometimes, when you want two things really badly, you need to make a choice. You need to decide which one is worth it, and which one is not. You need to tear yourself away from your second most wanted desire, and concentrate your energies on your true goals.

This is an uphill fight. There will be enemies along the way, trying to knock you off from the top, trying to pull you down from under. But you must fight on. You have your body, your mind, and your will. That's all you need really, but just remember, sometimes sacrifices must be made. Leaving the site for a while is a small sacrifice I'm making. Choosing to leave pursuing women for a bit is another sacrifice.

You can't win them all, but the ones you do win, win them fast, hard, and big.

Cheers.
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
One last post:

I just wanted to leave you all with this.

Sometimes, when you want two things really badly, you need to make a choice. You need to decide which one is worth it, and which one is not. You need to tear yourself away from your second most wanted desire, and concentrate your energies on your true goals.

This is an uphill fight. There will be enemies along the way, trying to knock you off from the top, trying to pull you down from under. But you must fight on. You have your body, your mind, and your will. That's all you need really, but just remember, sometimes sacrifices must be made. Leaving the site for a while is a small sacrifice I'm making. Choosing to leave pursuing women for a bit is another sacrifice.

You can't win them all, but the ones you do win, win them fast, hard, and big.

Cheers.
Now i have all the answers...*tear*
 

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Nice post, good luck. I noticed your study log, I really hope you don't kill yourself with all of that studying. Social skills and charisma are equally important if not more so, especially for leaders. And 12 posts per day IS kind of a lot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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