"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Look and act the part.

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I'm slowly understanding the dynamics. Women spend hours looking their best so they can be attractive to choose who they want and cut down alot of guys as well. I wonder if an average unkept slightly overweight man really stands a chance ? Today as I sipped a coffee there were average women everywhere. Next to me sat a sex bomb with fabulous body and short skirt. I wasn't on the prowl but noticed how she turned heads. I also noticed her frustration when i deliberately ignored her. We have to look out best to attract a woman. I know I am no model but first base is to have the best body we can for health , ability and undeniable sex appeal. If we wish to attract then it's obvious that we need to look attractive.
Next I feel that we shouldn't be like all the other guys who go ga ga when they chat to a woman. Dont undervalue yourself by giving too much. The mindset I like to use is we are sexy males...feel it and keep it just below the surface on the boil so it comes through on confident talk ...Not desperation.
That's all I wanted to share for now. First base is to look your best. Women need to value the man to be seduced. If they think you are less than them then you will never seduce them.Dont act or look less. Be a manly powerful force.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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