"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Look and act the part.

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I'm slowly understanding the dynamics. Women spend hours looking their best so they can be attractive to choose who they want and cut down alot of guys as well. I wonder if an average unkept slightly overweight man really stands a chance ? Today as I sipped a coffee there were average women everywhere. Next to me sat a sex bomb with fabulous body and short skirt. I wasn't on the prowl but noticed how she turned heads. I also noticed her frustration when i deliberately ignored her. We have to look out best to attract a woman. I know I am no model but first base is to have the best body we can for health , ability and undeniable sex appeal. If we wish to attract then it's obvious that we need to look attractive.
Next I feel that we shouldn't be like all the other guys who go ga ga when they chat to a woman. Dont undervalue yourself by giving too much. The mindset I like to use is we are sexy males...feel it and keep it just below the surface on the boil so it comes through on confident talk ...Not desperation.
That's all I wanted to share for now. First base is to look your best. Women need to value the man to be seduced. If they think you are less than them then you will never seduce them.Dont act or look less. Be a manly powerful force.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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