“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Long/WILD story - Lost my virginity tonight!

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Paying for sex is not DJ. In fact, it is worse than AFC.

It says that your sexuality is inferior to hers so you need to make up for it with money.

It is the old way. Why are men still following this like loyal dogs, while women have progressed leaps and bounds and no longer have limits?

F UCK this $hit.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have been a long time observer, but felt it necessary to register and begin posting in response to this.

First off, its up to you how you want to live your life. If you want to get it on with a prostitute, thats your business.

A few things disturb me about your story. First off, these women are prostitutes. Remember that fact. They have sex for a living. Unlike pornstars, their job is not regulated by mandatory STD testing.

I'm a senior bio major, currently applying to med school, so I think I have a relatively good knowledge of how the whole STD thing works. The lactating woman is probably your most likely source of infection if you have one. The likelihood is small, but there. HIV is a tricky virus. People who have it usually go 10 years or so without any symptoms. Breast milk is a bodily fluid that contains the virus in infected individuals.

Fortunately, most other diseases appear with strong symptoms in males, so you should notice the other common ones if you are infected.

For the love of god, if you are going to wait "a few months" to get tested, do not have sex with anyone else until you do. You may not think it is a big deal, but the women you could potentially infect will. Think about how much you will hate those prostitutes if you find yourself infected with HIV. I can guarantee you it is not a good feeling. Don't do that to an innocent girl.

All of this does not mean that you are infected. And I totally dont want to rain on your parade. It will most likely just be a really great night to remember. To ensure many future awesome nights to remember for all of us, just be careful.
 

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ya... do all the girls and potentially other guys a favor by not having sex with others till you're tested. thanks :)
 

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I wonder how many people would be confused if I said I embellished a few parts of the story . . . !!!!

But it still was a kick ass party nonetheless.

Alexi
 

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Originally posted by newplaya
I agree with JasonR.

Virginity is a precious thing, is something you should share with someone that you feelings for. Not someone you just met fuc* no.
Boooooooooooring, *yawn*.......

Dude, good for fuking you! Get that dam virginity out of the way. So you had to pay for it? I say who fuking cares. Now get out there and sarge.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude...he F*CKED A HOOKER!!

Is anyone else missing this??

This site is about meeting and attracting women, not getting laid.

It's not possible to be proud of this. If you are, you are a f*cktard.
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
I wonder how many people would be confused if I said I embellished a few parts of the story . . . !!!!

But it still was a kick ass party nonetheless.

Alexi
Frankly, I wouldn't be surprised.
 

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errr....

Originally posted by ShortTimer
Paying for sex is all fine and good.

People that pay for sex are people that cant get it for "free"... these types of people are normally sex deprived and/or ugly and/or old farts and/or just SUCK with women....

The only reason that i'm not going to tune
sfalexi is for the reason that he did not sleep with a h00ker because he COULDNT get any other woman, but he did it because he wanted to experiance it.... but if he starts making this into a regular habit, THEN i'd be worried;) (Note: I would never do so much as touch a hooker, but if he wants to, then thats HIS business!)

But back to my original point...

PAYING FOR SEX IS NOT ALL FINE AND GOOD!!


Laterz...
 

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confratulations sfalexi, herpes can be contracted even when wearing a condom, and a girl like that WILL haev herpes.

CONGRATS FOR LYFE
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: errr....

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
People that pay for sex are people that cant get it for "free"... these types of people are normally sex deprived and/or ugly and/or old farts and/or just SUCK with women....
stop making stupid generalizations (sp?)

Some have sleeping with hookers (mongering) as a 'hobby', they do it because of the 'kick' they get out of doing that. There are succesful people that just hook up with a hooker for the hell of it. It's not sick.

They provide a service, it is in fact one of the oldest (or THE oldest) job in the world.
 

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Re: Re: errr....

Originally posted by Centaurion
stop making stupid generalizations (sp?)

Some have sleeping with hookers (mongering) as a 'hobby', they do it because of the 'kick' they get out of doing that. There are succesful people that just hook up with a hooker for the hell of it. It's not sick.

They provide a service, it is in fact one of the oldest (or THE oldest) job in the world.

Thats just sad. and sick:D

But like i said.. if u are doing it for the experiance/fun of it, then its not AS bad as doing it becasue u cant get any other chick... but its still stupid and sick in my eye's!


Laterz...
 

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I think you guys are all missing the point - this guy isn't some innocent 15 year old kid trying to lose his virginity. He is 21 friggen years old. Thats VERY old nowadays to be a virgin. I dont blame him for going the pay to play route. Gotta get it out of the way and get some experience.
 

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After some recent incidents with prostitutes, I have come to respect them as persons that just try to get by in this world. They do it because they have to, it's not like they wake up one day and go 'hey i feel like sucking **** for $10 today', there are some more profound reasons behind what they do.

I actually met and got to know a prostitute some months ago. I met her in a pretty decent bar, she was stunning and didn't at all look like the typical image most people have of their normal crack*****. She was charming, hot, funny and a hooker nontheless. I immidiatly backed off when I found out that she was a prostitute, but I still chatted with her that night. She told me that she was just a regular college student that studied journalism, and that she just did this once a week to make money for tution fees and rent. We exchanged numbers, and we were infact texting eachother for a while, and even almost went out on a date before
I totally backed off after some of my friends reacted. She didn't get a dime off me, but she showed some real interest.

She really was something special. In fact when I think about it, she was probably one of the most charming, beautiful people I've ever met. She would infact have been a ltr material if she, well, didnt suck **** for money.

Well, as the dutch say..."You havn't lived until you have fallen in love with a hooker" so true so true....


:(
 

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An idea...

Centaurion: U ever think about the fact that $sluts get guys to want them for a living? they will do all the right things in order for you to want them:rolleyes:


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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if one of your fantasies was to have sex with a prostitute.... go see a shrink
... actually, first, go to the public health center in your town, get an STD test done, it's free. Then go to the closest psychiatrst/psychologist. Studies have shown that guys that fantasize about prostitutes regularly have other underlying mental healt disorders.
dude.. one mroe thing... everyone else has said it... I just have to say it... you lost your virginity to a prostitute?
 

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Re: errr....

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
People that pay for sex are people that cant get it for "free"... these types of people are normally sex deprived and/or ugly and/or old farts and/or just SUCK with women....
You can make fun of those people all you want, but it's their choice and not yours. Maybe you're intolerant of other lifestyles but I couldn't care so long as they aren't hurting me.
 

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Frankly, this story sounds like BS anyway, drinking breast milk? I think we have ourselves a troll trying to get some attention. He's already implied that some of it is "embellished"
 

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lol.

It seriously all did happen. But then again, this IS the internet, and it is up to you whether you want to believe me or not.

I know I'm telling the truth, but if you don't want to believe it, so be it.

Alexi

PS - As for the admitting thing, I just felt like confusing some people. Granted that was mean, but I'll live with it.
 

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wtf?!?

Originally posted by spidersense
if one of your fantasies was to have sex with a prostitute.... go see a shrink
... actually, first, go to the public health center in your town, get an STD test done, it's free. Then go to the closest psychiatrst/psychologist. Studies have shown that guys that fantasize about prostitutes regularly have other underlying mental healt disorders.
dude.. one mroe thing... everyone else has said it... I just have to say it... you lost your virginity to a prostitute?

Studies have shown that guys that fantasize about prostitutes regularly have other underlying mental health disorders?!?:confused: :eek: err... i would REALLY appreciate it if you could be kind enough to point me in the direction of ANY information that states that!:rolleyes:

And just for your information... nearly EVERY male fantasizes about f*cking a $lut, its perfectly normal, and if what u say is true, then i guess every guy that i know is.... underlying mental health disorders? *sigh*

One more thing... yes, he DID loose his virginity to a prostitute... whats the big deal?:confused: Its HIS life, HIS choice, and if he made that choice, you, along with anyone else, should respect that! If he wants to run the risk of getting and std/aids etc, then thats HIS problem.


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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