"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Long time since a girl made me melt like that

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Long time since a girl made me feel like that

Hey fellow DJ's. Been a long time I came here, I didn't have any girl troubles and all for a while. but now it's just come back, and it's reallly weird.

Since my first girlfriend, I can't say I've really had a real crush on someone. Sex was good and all, but never that "special" feeling. Well, I've had some kind of weird blind date yesterday (humor show, was hella fun), and the girl is just PER-FECT. I know I dhouldn't say that, she's not any better than I am blahblahblah all that crap, but damnit I can't believe I'm falling for a girl I've met once.

I'm even down to using dirty tactics of using my friend to get info on her, did she like me, how did she find her date, etc. I know if she knows about this I'm pretty close to auto-screwed.

Another thing that freaks me out is that after the show, I brought her back to her house (joking around telling her I didn't want her to get mugged and all), but when came the time to say good, bye, she was kinda fast to turn around. I just asked her "hug?", and she gave it to me but it seemed awkward. I shouldn't be stressed out about this simple thing, because everything else went pretty smooth, show was nice, girl laughed a lot and all that ****, but darn it's just weird.

Don't know what I really want you guys to tell me, but I had to tell my story. I don't want to go back to AFC state, that would suck. I wasn't that way before. (Well I was, but a long time ago)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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play it cool dont be such an afc.

u should know how much shes diggin u just by her body language throughout the date.
 

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Don't ask your friend any of that sh1t. Just call her up and invite her on a second date. If she agrees (and doesn't flake), she's interested. If she gives BS excuses, she's not interested and you move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Don't ask your friend any of that sh1t. Just call her up and invite her on a second date. If she agrees (and doesn't flake), she's interested. If she gives BS excuses, she's not interested and you move on.
Good advice :D
 
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