Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Long time since a girl made me melt like that

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Long time since a girl made me feel like that

Hey fellow DJ's. Been a long time I came here, I didn't have any girl troubles and all for a while. but now it's just come back, and it's reallly weird.

Since my first girlfriend, I can't say I've really had a real crush on someone. Sex was good and all, but never that "special" feeling. Well, I've had some kind of weird blind date yesterday (humor show, was hella fun), and the girl is just PER-FECT. I know I dhouldn't say that, she's not any better than I am blahblahblah all that crap, but damnit I can't believe I'm falling for a girl I've met once.

I'm even down to using dirty tactics of using my friend to get info on her, did she like me, how did she find her date, etc. I know if she knows about this I'm pretty close to auto-screwed.

Another thing that freaks me out is that after the show, I brought her back to her house (joking around telling her I didn't want her to get mugged and all), but when came the time to say good, bye, she was kinda fast to turn around. I just asked her "hug?", and she gave it to me but it seemed awkward. I shouldn't be stressed out about this simple thing, because everything else went pretty smooth, show was nice, girl laughed a lot and all that ****, but darn it's just weird.

Don't know what I really want you guys to tell me, but I had to tell my story. I don't want to go back to AFC state, that would suck. I wasn't that way before. (Well I was, but a long time ago)
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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play it cool dont be such an afc.

u should know how much shes diggin u just by her body language throughout the date.
 

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Don't ask your friend any of that sh1t. Just call her up and invite her on a second date. If she agrees (and doesn't flake), she's interested. If she gives BS excuses, she's not interested and you move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Don't ask your friend any of that sh1t. Just call her up and invite her on a second date. If she agrees (and doesn't flake), she's interested. If she gives BS excuses, she's not interested and you move on.
Good advice :D
 
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