okay so i had a long weekend... havent slept yet. anyway... i was coming home from a friends house and at the bus station in the city (it's indoor - with lil food stores n stuff) - up above, i was waiting for my bus to go home and i was looking for a quiet empty place to sit. i walked past a good looking girl, 8/10 - black hair, blue eyes. pretty in my books and i have high standards! i sat right at the opposite end of the bench where she was. i was there for about 5 mins or more and i saw this guy at an atm machine getting money out and he was checking this girl out. he approached her and pulled out a camera along with some silly story that he was in arts or something... went something like this:
strange guy: "hello i was wondering if i could take ur pic? im in arts... blah blah"
girl: uhhh what! haha (shock and a bit freaked out)
i didn't really hear it all but he got two shots of her... he even said "please? another?" what a loser.
anyway, he said thanks, introduced himself, told her his name and she asked where he was doing this arts thing and he stuffed up making her think he was just some stalker guy, which he probably was, looked like a nerdy virgin to me... so he said goodbye and left. she looked at me and shrugged and came out with a small laugh. i didn't say nothing and looked away.
- i never really like being the chaser these past few years... i just hate it for some reason... but god damn my manly hormones took over. i still think im an idiot for doing it and breaking my cool or something. i haven't been in the game for a while... let alone ask a girls number. i've usually had them ask me for my number cause i was so kept to myself and didn't wanna chase.
so... five mins goes. i stand up confidently. walked towards her and sat down next to her. she looked over. i gently said; "what was that all about?"
she laughed and said "i dunno! haha ... he freaked me out i was like, looking at you thinking "come here and save me!"" - directed to me of course - (she made contact with my arm at that moment). she told me what he told her. she said she didn't wanna be mean so she let him take a photo. after explaining that to me i asked what she was doing up in the city. she told me she was waiting for her girlfriends so they could go to this fashion show. she then asked me what i do with myself.. i told her what i've studied (arts, computing, business... i did massage work with my mom for a while) she liked the sound of all that... she whipped out a "wow!" - likewise, i asked her what she's doing with herself.
she's working at a jewlery store and studying to be a school teacher. i looked impressed and let her know that, with a "you like kids eh? that's nice
"
i asked her age... she's 18. i told her i was 22. she seemed to like that number for some reason cause she said: "oh really? cool" her face lightened up. she also asked about my accent... african/american... which i told her and she liked that too. i asked what her name was, i told her mine. she said she lived in **** and i perked up saying i live near there. she asked me where and i said **** and she was like "cool." i mean, it was cool... we were in the city and there's so many places... she happens to live close to me.
so i think that covered the conversation. i got up and said "well i'm gonna get going but i'll grab your number." she replied with a slight pause... in an exciting way; "... why, you wanna call me?" sounding flirty. i said; "maybe " (jokingly) she slightly paused again with a smile and said; "i have a boyfriend, if that bothers you...?" (didnt really get that part but it was somethin like that) - i says; "that's fine... just friends." she still paused with a smily thinking kinda face so i shoved in a: "i'd like to get to know you more " - i gave her my phone for her to type in and i was off with a "alright, thanks... nice meeting you. see ya." with a smile. she said her bye and i was off.
being out of the chase game for soooo long i was actually nervous and a bit red (i hope she didnt see) usually i'd pull it off with no problems... but i was even lost for words during the asking for her number part... with lil pauses and awkwardness.
right now, i still don't really even know if i wanna call her. she does have a boyfriend and she gave me her number... what does that tell you? she's either not happy with her relationship and keeping her book open... maybe even just wants a friend (but i saw some redness in her... she was very friendly, she liked me. you know how you can just tell ) - even so, if she does that, she's most likely to do it to me if there was to become something of it. could you trust a girl who gives out her number to guys when shes got a bf, hmm? - dodgy stuff. hell, i dont even know what to say really when i do/if i call. "hey there ****, how are you? it's that guy from the bus station that other day. blah blah blah, i'm thinking of heading up to the city again to browse around... hang out a bit... if you dont have any plans i'd like you to come. we can get to know each other more." did she give me her number cause she liked me? must be. she had a small quick think about it. i must of impressed her enough to get it.
god i hate chasing girls >=/ - i feel dumb for hitting on her. but happy that she saw interest in me before i even talked to her.
SORRY for this long post... i always do that for a short story. feel free to comment. thanks people. it's nice to be back again... been a while.
peace.
strange guy: "hello i was wondering if i could take ur pic? im in arts... blah blah"
girl: uhhh what! haha (shock and a bit freaked out)
i didn't really hear it all but he got two shots of her... he even said "please? another?" what a loser.
anyway, he said thanks, introduced himself, told her his name and she asked where he was doing this arts thing and he stuffed up making her think he was just some stalker guy, which he probably was, looked like a nerdy virgin to me... so he said goodbye and left. she looked at me and shrugged and came out with a small laugh. i didn't say nothing and looked away.
- i never really like being the chaser these past few years... i just hate it for some reason... but god damn my manly hormones took over. i still think im an idiot for doing it and breaking my cool or something. i haven't been in the game for a while... let alone ask a girls number. i've usually had them ask me for my number cause i was so kept to myself and didn't wanna chase.
so... five mins goes. i stand up confidently. walked towards her and sat down next to her. she looked over. i gently said; "what was that all about?"
she laughed and said "i dunno! haha ... he freaked me out i was like, looking at you thinking "come here and save me!"" - directed to me of course - (she made contact with my arm at that moment). she told me what he told her. she said she didn't wanna be mean so she let him take a photo. after explaining that to me i asked what she was doing up in the city. she told me she was waiting for her girlfriends so they could go to this fashion show. she then asked me what i do with myself.. i told her what i've studied (arts, computing, business... i did massage work with my mom for a while) she liked the sound of all that... she whipped out a "wow!" - likewise, i asked her what she's doing with herself.
she's working at a jewlery store and studying to be a school teacher. i looked impressed and let her know that, with a "you like kids eh? that's nice
"i asked her age... she's 18. i told her i was 22. she seemed to like that number for some reason cause she said: "oh really? cool" her face lightened up. she also asked about my accent... african/american... which i told her and she liked that too. i asked what her name was, i told her mine. she said she lived in **** and i perked up saying i live near there. she asked me where and i said **** and she was like "cool." i mean, it was cool... we were in the city and there's so many places... she happens to live close to me.
so i think that covered the conversation. i got up and said "well i'm gonna get going but i'll grab your number." she replied with a slight pause... in an exciting way; "... why, you wanna call me?" sounding flirty. i said; "maybe
" (jokingly) she slightly paused again with a smile and said; "i have a boyfriend, if that bothers you...?" (didnt really get that part but it was somethin like that) - i says; "that's fine... just friends." she still paused with a smily thinking kinda face so i shoved in a: "i'd like to get to know you more " - i gave her my phone for her to type in and i was off with a "alright, thanks... nice meeting you. see ya." with a smile. she said her bye and i was off.being out of the chase game for soooo long i was actually nervous and a bit red (i hope she didnt see) usually i'd pull it off with no problems... but i was even lost for words during the asking for her number part... with lil pauses and awkwardness.
right now, i still don't really even know if i wanna call her. she does have a boyfriend and she gave me her number... what does that tell you? she's either not happy with her relationship and keeping her book open... maybe even just wants a friend (but i saw some redness in her... she was very friendly, she liked me. you know how you can just tell
) - even so, if she does that, she's most likely to do it to me if there was to become something of it. could you trust a girl who gives out her number to guys when shes got a bf, hmm? - dodgy stuff. hell, i dont even know what to say really when i do/if i call. "hey there ****, how are you? it's that guy from the bus station that other day. blah blah blah, i'm thinking of heading up to the city again to browse around... hang out a bit... if you dont have any plans i'd like you to come. we can get to know each other more." did she give me her number cause she liked me? must be. she had a small quick think about it. i must of impressed her enough to get it.god i hate chasing girls >=/ - i feel dumb for hitting on her. but happy that she saw interest in me before i even talked to her.
SORRY for this long post... i always do that for a short story. feel free to comment. thanks people. it's nice to be back again... been a while.
peace.
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