"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Long term relationships

nan3109

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Does anyone have one? what do you guys do together (outings)?
how do you keep things fresh?

also, ive been seeing this girl for 5 months now but we only hang out once a week and most of the time we have sex. i was thinking about me and her hanging out more often and ****. she said this summer she'll be able to. any ways to get a girl to hang with your **** more often if you want a long term relationship?

(sorry for the vague post, but please get the idea and respond)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theonedude

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wow, once a week is pretty much all u should see her, i thought, otherwise her interest level might drop
 

DJoneday

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I've actually been wondering about the same thing, I've been going out with a girl for a couple months now and we're pretty much in a LTR, with nothing more than touching above the waist (and making out etc of course)...I've been with her like two or three times a week as we go to diff schools. So any tips on that and how you all usually take things to higher levels during LTRs especially with inexperienced girls.

Thanks
 

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Originally posted by theonedude
wow, once a week is pretty much all u should see her, i thought, otherwise her interest level might drop
lol, most things here are guidelines that work individually when you start out but you should learn what works for you and do that and try out variations. If you have a great time with each other then by all means see each otehr more, ootehrwise what is the point. Unless of course she is a trophy girlfriend (not that we dont want them;) )
 
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