"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Long periods of absense?

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Right before I left home for college, I went on a date with this girl who is staying in the same city for school. The date went well (not THAT well ;) ) but she is definitely into me.

Anyway, that was about 3 weeks ago. I won't be back home until December, so my question is:

Should I call her at all? Obviously, it would have to be just to talk, since I can't set anything up with 350 miles in between us. She doesn't get texts on her phone, she doesn't have facebook, I don't have her email address, anything! I don't really like doing the whole phone thing, but is it better than having no contact at all?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls talk to each other. When guys talk to girl, they become their girl friends. That's why usually army dudes away on a mission that talk to their girls come back to a girl who's sleeping with another guy.
 
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You're clinging on to this one girl? I thought you said you were in college. Pardon me, but aren't there girls all around you?
 
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I never said I'm clinging to this girl. I didn't even think about her until a couple of minutes before I posted that. It's not a big deal, I'm just wondering which would be better.
 
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Don't call her at all. Give her a call when you come back, and invite her to "catch up". Then pull some slick moves :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlexTheGreat said:
Don't call her at all. Give her a call when you come back, and invite her to "catch up". Then pull some slick moves :)
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I'm an Alex too :D

you're right, thanks.
 
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