"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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caribstars

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I have a long neck and sometimes i get called girafe, which is not funny and this kinda makes me not very confident about myself. Is there anything I can do about that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NMMWCR

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Build your traps and shoulders.

I'm guessing you are thin as a rail. If so, bulk up.
 

RawkinKaoticStyle

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OMG man i have the same problem

well actually this isnt a problem but....

yeah anymore tips


look at this site it has some neck work outs

abcbodybuilding.com

i was thinking aboout showing a pic of my next but hahahaha
 

WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by caribstars
I have a long neck and sometimes i get called girafe, which is not funny and this kinda makes me not very confident about myself. Is there anything I can do about that?

giraffe. lol

shrugs and deadlifts will start building that neck up
 

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Doing compound lifts that stress your whole body will make you bigger in general. I don't do any work on the neck itself, but through my half assed workouts I have gained an inch on my neck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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