"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Long lasting cramp?

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I have what feels like a cramp, if I take a breath in, it feels like it cramps and releases. It's not too painful, even when I sneeze or take a real deep breath.

I can breath normally, but when I purposely take a breath, that's when I notice it. Or if I sniffle or sneeze (I think I have allergies right now).

I noticed it around last night while I was eating dinner and I was pretty full. I went to sleep and had to limit my movement cuz it seemed like it hurt when I lied down on my side.

The cramp is towards the left of my lower chest, near where the ribs end.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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does it feel like your chest is constricting? hhow long has it lasted for i know from experience cramps come anywhere seeing as i got one on my tongue b4
 

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try a little salt..it's helped me when I had foot or leg cramps. Just east a little bit of salt.
 

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Sounds like gas pressure.
If it is a real muscle cramp try eating bananas, broccoli, bell peppers, etc. Anything with high potasium.
 

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What do u mean eat salt? I ate a meal just now with a lotta salt.

dj ben2 said:
does it feel like your chest is constricting? hhow long has it lasted for i know from experience cramps come anywhere seeing as i got one on my tongue b4
What do u mean constricting? I went out today and most of my motion was fine, I barely noticed it while with my friends.

It has lasted since last night when I ate dinner.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I still have it today. I've been going to the bathroom fine, I ate salt, I ate a banana. Nothing seemed to help. It gets better and worse throughout the day.
 

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Third night, 48 hours. What the hell?... it still doesn't hurt too bad. No more than it did before.
 
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