"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Long lasting cramp?

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I have what feels like a cramp, if I take a breath in, it feels like it cramps and releases. It's not too painful, even when I sneeze or take a real deep breath.

I can breath normally, but when I purposely take a breath, that's when I notice it. Or if I sniffle or sneeze (I think I have allergies right now).

I noticed it around last night while I was eating dinner and I was pretty full. I went to sleep and had to limit my movement cuz it seemed like it hurt when I lied down on my side.

The cramp is towards the left of my lower chest, near where the ribs end.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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does it feel like your chest is constricting? hhow long has it lasted for i know from experience cramps come anywhere seeing as i got one on my tongue b4
 

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try a little salt..it's helped me when I had foot or leg cramps. Just east a little bit of salt.
 

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Sounds like gas pressure.
If it is a real muscle cramp try eating bananas, broccoli, bell peppers, etc. Anything with high potasium.
 

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What do u mean eat salt? I ate a meal just now with a lotta salt.

dj ben2 said:
does it feel like your chest is constricting? hhow long has it lasted for i know from experience cramps come anywhere seeing as i got one on my tongue b4
What do u mean constricting? I went out today and most of my motion was fine, I barely noticed it while with my friends.

It has lasted since last night when I ate dinner.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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I still have it today. I've been going to the bathroom fine, I ate salt, I ate a banana. Nothing seemed to help. It gets better and worse throughout the day.
 

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Third night, 48 hours. What the hell?... it still doesn't hurt too bad. No more than it did before.
 
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