"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Long hair?

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Don't know if this is a stupid question but...I'm growing my hair long just to see what it looks like. I've had really short hair all my life and I don't feel that comfortable with long hair...however all my female friends say it looks good and better than when my hair is short.

Should I consider this advice (and women's advice on clothes and appearance in general) to be as useless as their romantic advice?

Or is following their advice on fashion for guys a good idea?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most times, i would recomend taking fashion and hairstyle advice from women.... They really do pay attention to that stuff and know what looks good on a guy.

Just don't wear something you don't like, even if they say it looks great. Find a style that is you, first and formost.
 
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Develop a sense of your own fashion. Girls can help at this, but there's a belief that all girls are automatically good at fashion, one that they gladly propagate. My girlfriend is proof that this is false.

Long hair is like porn star. This is what I think.
 
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Long hair is ****ty, and makes you look trashy. Don't grow long hair.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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there is a trend coming around regarding long hair in men

just look at Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Tom Cruise, Antonio Banderas and Viggo Mortensen

whether this works for you, remains to be seen. hollywood stars could rub **** on their face and they'd still have a line 2 miles long of people willing to sleep with them, so don't take it as gospel.
 
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dude ive got long hair, it looks pretty much like ashton kutchers. Who gives a fuk if long hair looks gay, if thats what suits you, keep it.

I can tell you, i always had long hair since i was about 11 and then the summer before senior year i cut it short, got like a spikyish sort of style. First day of school, everyones like 'damn, you cut your hair, ahhhh!!!11'. 2 girls told me straight out 'it sucks'. Man i remember one girl looking at me like i was some monster going 'you cut your hair?' That day was a nightmare and all i did is cut my damn hair. I obviously then grew my hair back and didnt look back! I dont know why but short hair just doesnt suit me, i look like a whole different guy

basically my point is do what suits you, if long hair is for you, keep it.
 
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