"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Long Hair vs. Short Hair on a guy?

PackDaddy

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Hi guys,

I'm wondering whether continuing to grow my hair out (to the bottom of my head) is alright, or if I should cut it.

I'm also an accounting/finance major and will be starting an internship with Deloitte Touche this summer.

I've thought about this from multiple angles, which are:

Business/Respect - Long hair can send a message to others saying you're liberal, and maybe even a little out of control. But, if you can rock it, it also can say you're one cool/badass dude. However, I feel like shorter hair might actually command more respect.

Sexuality/Girls - Long hair on a guy can say to women, "I'm fun and will put good use to your body in the bedroom." Not sure whether the consensus prefers short hair, or long hair. I know long hair is associated with a woman's femininity. I would think some women wouldn't like it because it can send a feminine signal, while some girls think it is attractive. I am muscular though, so even if some women associate my long hair with femininity my muscles come up to bat and show otherwise.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mv.89

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Pic ? we can't imagine you by just the use of words.
 

Zerro

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It comes down to how it fits your face and your attitude. I've known guys with long hair that nobody would question the authority of and plenty of dudes with short hair whom nobody respects.
 

Blistex

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It is hard to give you a good answer without knowing how you look. Short hair works for some people and other times long hair works just as fine. Go with what you're most comfortable with.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Night-hawk

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Have it how you like it.
 
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