"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Long Hair vs. Short Hair on a guy?

PackDaddy

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Hi guys,

I'm wondering whether continuing to grow my hair out (to the bottom of my head) is alright, or if I should cut it.

I'm also an accounting/finance major and will be starting an internship with Deloitte Touche this summer.

I've thought about this from multiple angles, which are:

Business/Respect - Long hair can send a message to others saying you're liberal, and maybe even a little out of control. But, if you can rock it, it also can say you're one cool/badass dude. However, I feel like shorter hair might actually command more respect.

Sexuality/Girls - Long hair on a guy can say to women, "I'm fun and will put good use to your body in the bedroom." Not sure whether the consensus prefers short hair, or long hair. I know long hair is associated with a woman's femininity. I would think some women wouldn't like it because it can send a feminine signal, while some girls think it is attractive. I am muscular though, so even if some women associate my long hair with femininity my muscles come up to bat and show otherwise.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mv.89

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Pic ? we can't imagine you by just the use of words.
 

Zerro

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It comes down to how it fits your face and your attitude. I've known guys with long hair that nobody would question the authority of and plenty of dudes with short hair whom nobody respects.
 

Blistex

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It is hard to give you a good answer without knowing how you look. Short hair works for some people and other times long hair works just as fine. Go with what you're most comfortable with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Night-hawk

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Have it how you like it.
 
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