That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Exactly, that's what I'm saying, if your a decent looking guy you shouldn't have any trouble with it, but God_of_getting_layed_by_fat_men (that's 'laid' BTW, retard) fails to see that point. Like a lot of the guys responding to the thread, long hair has hardly been a handicap, and we've had more sucess with our hair longer... I, personally, on a semi-frequent occasion, wear my hair turcked under a beanie when I go out and I have MUCH more sucess pulling interest from girls when my hair is in view.seanchai said:Dude, I don't think you're ever going to prove the idea that long hair is unattractive to these guys who have had a lot of success with it. Maybe short hair is more attractive, maybe they'd have more success if they cut their long clean hair, but you're not getting anywhere telling them they aren't going to be successful with that long hair.
It's like me telling an interrogator that waterboarding isn't a viable technique. That might be my opinion, there might be evidence to support it, but his experience is different.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Actually, my logic goes like this: I wear my hair down, I pull pvssy like crazy... I hide my hair under a benie, girls don't seem to notice or care. End of story. There you go. So, I'm not a c0cksucker, just a long haired jack@ss that gets his c0ck sucked thanks to my long locks. So why again should I cut it if it's getting me laid?God_of_getting_layed said:archaxis,
if your jack@ss logic is true, then when a woman with a shaved head dresses feminine and girly girl, her shaved head should no longer be perceived as masculine.
The fact is, she can put on all the make up she wants, and be as paris hilton girly girl pink as she can, and her shaved head will still be seen as masculine.
I call that a contridiction to your logic ya long haired c0cksucker.
NIIIICE QUOOOOOTEFallen33 said:Because what does long hair with no balls make you? Do the math.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'd like to see those studies, surveys and polls please. In lieu of that, I recommend we have Gogl here set up some survey parameters and distribute this so we can find out once and for all.God_of_getting_layed said:studies, surveys and polls have been done on this. The concensus is MOST BUT NOT ALL fvcking hate guys with girl long hair.
you get more women with your hair down?Archaxis said:Actually, my logic goes like this: I wear my hair down, I pull pvssy like crazy... I hide my hair under a benie, girls don't seem to notice or care. End of story. There you go. So, I'm not a c0cksucker, just a long haired jack@ss that gets his c0ck sucked thanks to my long locks. So why again should I cut it if it's getting me laid?So far as I can tell, it's your logic thats flawed.
studies, surveys and polls have been done on this. The concensus is MOST BUT NOT ALL fvcking hate guys with girl long hair.Athens said:There's not a standard that says girls like or dislike a particular length of hair by default. I've been growing my hair out for several months now and and I have never looked better. And it's not just unkempt hair, I arrange it to make it look good.
In the end, women prefer good looking guys with confidence. You can be good looking and confident no matter your hair length. Some guys facial structure, like mine, is just suited more to longer hair. It accents my jawline and the shape of my head, and I more chicks fawn over me because of it. I don't go one day without getting complimented by girls. So as long as you can make your long hair look good, it'll work for you.
And yeah I am a musician.
just work it so it doesn't look like a helmet and you'll be fine.supajsilver2 said:me.
good example of shaggy look or no? i understand ginger is tough to work with in the first place but this seems to do pretty nice. it's naturally very curly like that, also.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lol, If your skeptical about what I posted, then you have to be brain dead. seriously.seanchai said:I'd like to see those studies, surveys and polls please. In lieu of that, I recommend we have Gogl here set up some survey parameters and distribute this so we can find out once and for all.
Example:
Do you (CHECK ONE):
[ ] Hate guys with long hair
[ ] Fvcking hate guys with long hair
[ ] Fvcking hate guys with girl long hair
[ ] Guys with long hair ARE girls
skip2mylou781 said:OKAY everyone except for God of geting laid, SHUT UP NOW
Take a guy, lets say he is 21, 6'0, 180 lbs, good build, nice face structure, basically has the goods to be a hottie in the eyes of the TYPICAL HOT WOMAN. (u know, the kind of woman that u jerk off too when ur home and need some release).
Are you guy sSERIOUSLY saying that if i was to give this guy LONG hair, that it would make his chances better of having girls attracted to him as opposed to giving him SHORT hair??? like, are u SERIOUSLY KIDDING ME??? Long (girlish long, not shaggy, but simply LONG) is 1 of the ugliest things that ALWAYS ruins how good a guy looks from the shoulders up. With short hair, this guy i just described could be a 8/10 or 9/10, he would b wat hot girls would look at and say "wow he is so handsome!!!"
with long hair (down to shoulders), hot girls would look at him and say "ok wowwww hes got sucha nice body and build, but he has GOT to do somethin with his hair!!!!"
just PICTURE it seriously
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.