"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Long hair, or short hair on a man?

PackDaddy

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Hi guys,

I'm wondering whether continuing to grow my hair out (to the bottom of my head) is alright, or if I should cut it.

I'm also an accounting/finance major and will be starting an internship with Deloitte Touche this summer.

I've thought about this from multiple angles, which are:

Business/Respect - Long hair can send a message to others saying you're liberal, and maybe even a little out of control. But, if you can rock it, it also can say you're one cool/badass dude. However, I feel like shorter hair might actually command more respect.

Sexuality/Girls - Long hair on a guy can say to women, "I'm fun and will put good use to your body in the bedroom." Not sure whether the consensus prefers short hair, or long hair. I know long hair is associated with a woman's femininity. I would think some women wouldn't like it because it can send a feminine signal, while some girls think it is attractive. I am muscular though, so even if some women associate my long hair with femininity my muscles come up to bat and show otherwise.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mike32ct

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I think it's a compromise between work and puss.

From a PURELY attracting women standpoint, I say rock the long hair if you got it.

But a more conservative (and possibly shorter style) is probably better for work.

How do you rock a shorter style without losing sex appeal? Probably need an athletic build to go with it. Then it's more like, "I need short low maintenance hair (or shaved/buzzed head) for my athletic lifestyle."

Short hair on a non-athletic guy is boring.
 

Hydrak

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Depends. Some guys (nikolaj coster-waldau) suits a lot better in longer hair, while dudes like Brad pitt are better in short. I prefer trimmed on the sides/back and longer hair up front.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SamTheHobit

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Depends on ones facial structure.
 

Chamber36

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I haven't cut mine in a year, after regretfully going from long to short.

Now it's as long as before I cut it, and I am trying to see how long I can go without cutting it before I get a ton of split ends. Gotta keep the hairs moist though, I use coconut oil:cheer:
 

zekko

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Either long or short hair can work to your benefit, it just depends on your personality and individual style. Short hair can be seen as more masculine, and long hair can get you that rebel look.

I used to wear my hair long at times when I was younger, but I definitely like it short now because I can't be arsed to deal with it when it's long. Too much hair care, takes longer to wash, dry, and comb it, etc. In general I think women see it as unmanly if you spend too much time on your hair.

You might also want to keep it short for business purposes, depending on what you do. Long hair is often seen as unprofessional.
 

Zion

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Had long hair.Hated it.
Have short hair now. Loving it.


Except for my dad , literally everyone tells me that I look a lot better with short hair.


Test it out ,but for me , if not anything else , I'm simply in fvcking love with the comfort level of short hair. I feel free.
 

Zion

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Fvck what your girlfriend says.


Go to a hair stylist. Someone who people you know recommend. Ask him / her for an opinion. They usually know what they're talking about.

A short haircut has to fit your face. Some are exponentially better than others.

Fcvk what your girlfriend says. Oh , wait , I already said that. Ok , in that case , fvck what everyone says.

I kept my hair long for almost 2 extra years because people were telling me it's a horrible idea to cut. Just do whatever the hell you feel like doing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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I guess long hair works better if it comes of dating and getting chicks except few exceptions but at the same time they can also give you point on business.

There was a study somewhere which shown how people with longer hair had a higher income with people with shorter hair but let me clarify with two examples.

this is what they meant by long:
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-RTxDypuuzLk/T9U0HSsDz8I/AAAAAAAADEA/V6ptanfdI8Q/s1600/Batemanas.jpg

by short:
https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTgDh8II8hY8b3cds2znHCo-8qjqrtQVwrz_DMI0ibXk0PoXuit

However it must be noted that some guy refer to be taken more seriously after completely shave their heads and even get more attention from women, but again it all depends on your facial shape and I say skin color.

If it was me I would have my hair like this...
http://www.hairstyleagain.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Men-short-hairstyle-tips.jpg
Except that mother nature wanted me to look more like Bruce Willis in Hudson hawk...
 

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I recently got my haircut after letting it grow for almost 3 months...i immediately regret.

The looks i used to get when I had that hair, and the desire for women to put their hands in it was insane. Plus it can show a lot of sexuality if you learn to run your hands through your hair the right way. I'm letting mine grow for a long time. Most importantly, remember this saying:
"Long hair, don't care". Not caring is one of the most important attributes of a DJ. ;)
 

Bokanovsky

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Long hair if you want to attract fudge packers and/or hippie, feminist chicks. Short hair if you want to attract more feminine women.
 
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