"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oElS

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a 45 minute drive relationship in highschool, cannot work, am i correct, what should i make of this... is there any point at all in following this up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It just isn't worth it in high school. Unless you are absolutley sure that this person embodies everything you want in a person then you should just try and stay away from LDR's. You're going to meet a lot of girls who will strike your fancy and with a LDR it won't be fair to either of you if you limit yourself to a LDR when you can easily find someone in your school who you can be with. You're young, im assuming she's young. Your best bet is just to stay in contact and later on if its meant to be you guys will hit it up. But at our age, I would stay away from LDR's. Just my two cents.
 
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If there was no prior LTR (long term relationship) with the chick, I would not do it.
 
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thanks a lot for the insight semperfi, thats exactly what i was looking for
 
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I went out with this girl who lived about 35 mins away for 7 months and it was worth it.... good expierances ;) might as well give it a shot and if you find its a waste of your gas... then give her the shove...

well i guess with the increasing gas prices and my v8 it wouldnt be worth it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good Lord, y'all are shooting this down because of a 45 minute drive? I don't know about you, but I have to drive at least half an hour to get to a lot of friends' houses, and it's the same with girls. I don't see any reason to shoot down a relationship simply because the girl's 45 minutes away. That ain't a weekend-killer; I dated someone who lived 45 minutes from me for four months this year. Went very well.
 
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