"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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a 45 minute drive relationship in highschool, cannot work, am i correct, what should i make of this... is there any point at all in following this up?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It just isn't worth it in high school. Unless you are absolutley sure that this person embodies everything you want in a person then you should just try and stay away from LDR's. You're going to meet a lot of girls who will strike your fancy and with a LDR it won't be fair to either of you if you limit yourself to a LDR when you can easily find someone in your school who you can be with. You're young, im assuming she's young. Your best bet is just to stay in contact and later on if its meant to be you guys will hit it up. But at our age, I would stay away from LDR's. Just my two cents.
 
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If there was no prior LTR (long term relationship) with the chick, I would not do it.
 
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thanks a lot for the insight semperfi, thats exactly what i was looking for
 
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I went out with this girl who lived about 35 mins away for 7 months and it was worth it.... good expierances ;) might as well give it a shot and if you find its a waste of your gas... then give her the shove...

well i guess with the increasing gas prices and my v8 it wouldnt be worth it...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good Lord, y'all are shooting this down because of a 45 minute drive? I don't know about you, but I have to drive at least half an hour to get to a lot of friends' houses, and it's the same with girls. I don't see any reason to shoot down a relationship simply because the girl's 45 minutes away. That ain't a weekend-killer; I dated someone who lived 45 minutes from me for four months this year. Went very well.
 
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