soulforge
Master Don Juan
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Believe me they are a complete WASTE of time..
Unless you are just seeing the chick as a PLATE or if you are planning to do long distance on a SHORT TERM BASIS, maybe a year, till you both move in together.
Too many things can go wrong with a long distance relationship.. Here are some I have identified & have experienced myself from my previous relationship.
If any of you guys are currently in a long term LDR then here are some situations you are likely to face. I would EJECT sooner than later guys.
01.Much higher chance of one of you cheating or meeting someone closer by & then bailing out of the relationship.
02.Its much harder to form a solid bond with someone, who you only see once a week.
03.Its tougher to get over an argument, due to the lack of physical time together to discuss matters face to face.
04.You could become bored or lonely due to your partner not physically available for the majority of the time.
05.Text or WhatsApp conversations can become extremely boring.. Nothing can beat an actual face to face in person conversation.
06.The lack of physical bonding and lack of regular sex can lead to cheating, I know I was tempted to bang other chicks, many times.
07.One of you will have to make a MAJOR sacrifice & move away to be with your partner, leaving everything and everyone behind.
08. Your relationship isn't evolving into anything, you are stuck in the same cycle of seeing each other once a week or once a month.
09.Going from seeing each other once a week, to moving in with each other, could end up in disaster.. You haven't spent enough time together, to test how you would get along in a living together type situation.
I have come to the conclusion, there are NO positives to a LDR unless you are just banging someone, with no intention of a committed relationship.
Or you are doing LDR for a short period of time!!
Unless you are just seeing the chick as a PLATE or if you are planning to do long distance on a SHORT TERM BASIS, maybe a year, till you both move in together.
Too many things can go wrong with a long distance relationship.. Here are some I have identified & have experienced myself from my previous relationship.
If any of you guys are currently in a long term LDR then here are some situations you are likely to face. I would EJECT sooner than later guys.
01.Much higher chance of one of you cheating or meeting someone closer by & then bailing out of the relationship.
02.Its much harder to form a solid bond with someone, who you only see once a week.
03.Its tougher to get over an argument, due to the lack of physical time together to discuss matters face to face.
04.You could become bored or lonely due to your partner not physically available for the majority of the time.
05.Text or WhatsApp conversations can become extremely boring.. Nothing can beat an actual face to face in person conversation.
06.The lack of physical bonding and lack of regular sex can lead to cheating, I know I was tempted to bang other chicks, many times.
07.One of you will have to make a MAJOR sacrifice & move away to be with your partner, leaving everything and everyone behind.
08. Your relationship isn't evolving into anything, you are stuck in the same cycle of seeing each other once a week or once a month.
09.Going from seeing each other once a week, to moving in with each other, could end up in disaster.. You haven't spent enough time together, to test how you would get along in a living together type situation.
I have come to the conclusion, there are NO positives to a LDR unless you are just banging someone, with no intention of a committed relationship.
Or you are doing LDR for a short period of time!!