"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hey guys ok this is the story: ive had this friend for about 4 years now and i havent really seen her a lot since i moved. i hung out with her twice the past month and she changed. shes a lot more attractive and shes just a much better person now.
so i started liking her (btw shes my sis best friend) so i talk about her with my sister. 2 days ago my sister told me that emi(the girl i like) likes me and she told emi that i like her!! i was like what/???
so i told her NOT to tell emi that i know that she likes me. becuase i dont want to rush it and i dont want to ask her out too early.
well the problem is that i dont really see her much but i talk to her on aim and sometimes on the phone. but im afraid that she might lose interest in me if i dont see her again in a while. im planning to see her this winter break and i was also planning to ask her to a valentines dance in our school.
so is there anyway that i can strengthen her interest in me by only talking to her online??? i need help guys im not so sure what to do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LDR's rarely work out.

I believed against this common conception while I was in one, but now that I'm no longer with her I see it's quite the valid conception.
 
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I will NOT say that they do not work out. It worked for me for one full year, but then she changed when I came into Short Distance Relationship.

Just to let you know, they will change when you finally get together in a Short Distance Relationship. Just a word of advice and buyers beware.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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