"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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duckbutt

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hey guys ok this is the story: ive had this friend for about 4 years now and i havent really seen her a lot since i moved. i hung out with her twice the past month and she changed. shes a lot more attractive and shes just a much better person now.
so i started liking her (btw shes my sis best friend) so i talk about her with my sister. 2 days ago my sister told me that emi(the girl i like) likes me and she told emi that i like her!! i was like what/???
so i told her NOT to tell emi that i know that she likes me. becuase i dont want to rush it and i dont want to ask her out too early.
well the problem is that i dont really see her much but i talk to her on aim and sometimes on the phone. but im afraid that she might lose interest in me if i dont see her again in a while. im planning to see her this winter break and i was also planning to ask her to a valentines dance in our school.
so is there anyway that i can strengthen her interest in me by only talking to her online??? i need help guys im not so sure what to do
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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itishe

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LDR's rarely work out.

I believed against this common conception while I was in one, but now that I'm no longer with her I see it's quite the valid conception.
 

comic_relief

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I will NOT say that they do not work out. It worked for me for one full year, but then she changed when I came into Short Distance Relationship.

Just to let you know, they will change when you finally get together in a Short Distance Relationship. Just a word of advice and buyers beware.

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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