Long Distance Cheating

[fastrunner]

Ok heres the rub. My girlfriend and I are from the same town but we go to schools that are about 4 hours away. Well anyways here in lies the problem we have been dating for 6 months and for the last couple of weeks things have changed. It seems that everytime i try to talk to her she is always busy or doesnt answer the phone at all. When i do actually get her on the phone it is usually only for a few minutes. Deep down i know that something isnt right. I am going up to see her this weekend and I am going to confront her. The thing is I don't have any real proof that she is cheating on me other than my Don Juan sense kicking in. Basically what I am going to do is stay calm look her in the eye, and ask her. Any sign of hesitation or blame on me and she is nexted. Do any of you guys have any better advice for I should handle this situation.

 

[joey37]

Don't do ****, if she is cheating on you, you'll know eventually. When you go up there trying to "confront" her, you're just looking insecure.

Have your own life and do your own things. Leave the ***** first.

 

[fastrunner]

Fair enough....
I guess thats why I am asking for advice
I guess I should just get my priorites straight first and get my "bullpen" ready.

 

[fastrunner]

bump

 

[CLOONEY]

yeah I have some advice, DONT GO UP THERE!! Withdraw, dont call or contact AT ALL for a couple of weeks, see how the tables turn!!

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by fastrunner
Deep down i know that something isnt right.

Listen to this niggling doubt that's 'deep down', everytime I have had one, I have been correct. I always hear talk about 'womens intuition', but have no doubt that guys have their own intuition too.

Forget about whether or not she is cheating on you, you'll do your head in trying to work out if she is or isn't. The thing to concentrate on is that she is not treating you right - act on that if anything.