"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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loner in class...

ApC23

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im taking a class that i failed last year, so im with people a year below me. i sit alone in the corner at the back and i know no one in that class, i feel liek a ****ing loner everytime i step in there. im gona be stuck there for a wh ole semester, so maybe i should just suck it up and not let it bother me, i dunno. advice, comment, ...eh. im fine with my other classes..this year ive been talking to more people, im more confident, but as soon as i get in that one class..i duno.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BBX

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if your in a class with kids a year younger thats ace, kids in the younger grades want to kno a lot of kids in the above grades to seem cool. just make some jokes about the teacher with whos sitting next to you, u kno what im saying.
 

eminence

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make friends with them, talk to the people infront of you, i'm shy myself and I know this is hard, but once you talk with them a little bit it gets easier.......and there you go, you just made a new friend. Do it as fast as possible though, or you will be labeled as the loner kid and it will be that much harder for people to talk to you
 

1life

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BBX said:
if your in a class with kids a year younger thats ace, kids in the younger grades want to kno a lot of kids in the above grades to seem cool. just make some jokes about the teacher with whos sitting next to you, u kno what im saying.
do exactly what he said.
 
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