"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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loner in class...

ApC23

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im taking a class that i failed last year, so im with people a year below me. i sit alone in the corner at the back and i know no one in that class, i feel liek a ****ing loner everytime i step in there. im gona be stuck there for a wh ole semester, so maybe i should just suck it up and not let it bother me, i dunno. advice, comment, ...eh. im fine with my other classes..this year ive been talking to more people, im more confident, but as soon as i get in that one class..i duno.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BBX

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if your in a class with kids a year younger thats ace, kids in the younger grades want to kno a lot of kids in the above grades to seem cool. just make some jokes about the teacher with whos sitting next to you, u kno what im saying.
 

eminence

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make friends with them, talk to the people infront of you, i'm shy myself and I know this is hard, but once you talk with them a little bit it gets easier.......and there you go, you just made a new friend. Do it as fast as possible though, or you will be labeled as the loner kid and it will be that much harder for people to talk to you
 

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BBX said:
if your in a class with kids a year younger thats ace, kids in the younger grades want to kno a lot of kids in the above grades to seem cool. just make some jokes about the teacher with whos sitting next to you, u kno what im saying.
do exactly what he said.
 
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