"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

loner in class...

ApC23

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2006
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
im taking a class that i failed last year, so im with people a year below me. i sit alone in the corner at the back and i know no one in that class, i feel liek a ****ing loner everytime i step in there. im gona be stuck there for a wh ole semester, so maybe i should just suck it up and not let it bother me, i dunno. advice, comment, ...eh. im fine with my other classes..this year ive been talking to more people, im more confident, but as soon as i get in that one class..i duno.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

BBX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2006
Messages
556
Reaction score
6
Location
los angles, calli
if your in a class with kids a year younger thats ace, kids in the younger grades want to kno a lot of kids in the above grades to seem cool. just make some jokes about the teacher with whos sitting next to you, u kno what im saying.
 

eminence

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2006
Messages
299
Reaction score
3
make friends with them, talk to the people infront of you, i'm shy myself and I know this is hard, but once you talk with them a little bit it gets easier.......and there you go, you just made a new friend. Do it as fast as possible though, or you will be labeled as the loner kid and it will be that much harder for people to talk to you
 

1life

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2005
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
Age
36
Location
New Jersey
BBX said:
if your in a class with kids a year younger thats ace, kids in the younger grades want to kno a lot of kids in the above grades to seem cool. just make some jokes about the teacher with whos sitting next to you, u kno what im saying.
do exactly what he said.
 
Top