"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lonely on Christmas and New Years

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Lonely on Christmas and New Years and no money to travel.

Lonely, Depressed, and Broke.
If only I had money to go overseas again, so that I don't have to be so lonely here. As of now I have absolutely no plans for new years, just like every year.

Latest Field Report:

There was this ugly Indian old woman, who rejected me, and I ended up paying the tab for her drinks. What the hell do you do when the b*tch doesn't reach for the bill? I ended up having to do it. No effort at all, B1tch Now i want my $20 back, but I will never get it back. If anyone feels sorry for me plz give me $20 as I have nothing this new years.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PokerStar

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i hear you bro. my moms and sister will be heading out of town so i will be spending xmas by myself. so i decided to have an xmas party. having all my firends come by and party it up xmas evening. itll be a pretty good shin dig.

as for new years? well since its my first time in my new apartment i think im going to have a new years jam at my place. im not into going to clubs, waiting inline for a drink and paying 50 bux to get in.
 

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Quit tricken. and quit revolving your world around girls. Revolve it around making yourself better and doing things you enjoy such as sports.
 
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I hear you man. I'm in the same boat.

Try to stay positive. Maybe go to the gym New Years Eve afternoon to get your endorphins up. Don't drink too much that night. Don't listen to sad music. If you are home alone watch the ball drop on CNN, make a resolution and goto sleep. Wake up in the morning without a hangover and look at January 1 as a new beginning with new opportunities.
 

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Bud_Fox said:
I hear you man. I'm in the same boat.

Try to stay positive. Maybe go to the gym New Years Eve afternoon to get your endorphins up. Don't drink too much that night. Don't listen to sad music. If you are home alone watch the ball drop on CNN, make a resolution and goto sleep. Wake up in the morning without a hangover and look at January 1 as a new beginning with new opportunities.
Everyone should probably try to have one of these more grounded NYEs to reflect and prepare for the upcoming year. Having said that, I'm not sure what I'm doing but I will definitely be looking to get my d1ck wet. hahaha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am I the only one happy to be alone on Christmas and New Years? I think it's fantastic. I get a week off from work. Probably workout everyday, sleep in and go to the beach.
 

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Yeah same. Life is about not getting high with the highs and low with the lows.
What makes Christmas different then any other day? Because the corporate system
says to over buy and overeat? Treat everyday like its special not just a few holidays in the year and you will have life to celebrate.
 
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